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It’s 3:45 on the Sunday after Thanksgiving, and I just woke up from a two hour nap.

Yes, you might call it a nearly year-long nap, considering how long it’s been since I’ve been here. Hello? Hello! I’ve been sleep deprived as never before. I’ve had my utter purpose in life redefined in a way I didn’t (and still don’t, some days) expect. I’ve been inspired to accomplish things I never dreamed I would do. I’ve been at my very worst and very best, sometimes within a couple minutes of each other. This year has been incredible in so many ways.

Now, here I am, fighting a wicked cold, courtesy of one little cutie pie, who’s unbelievably about to turn one. One! I honestly can’t believe it.

Iver, the ladybug

She’s taking three or four little steps by herself before she flings herself at either Pat or me, with arms wide open. She’s all gap-toothed smile and wiggles and funny noises. She’s all can’t-sit-still and hold-me-all-the-time and read-me-a-book. She’s a lover of bubbles and the cat and potting soil. She knows the baby signs for flowers and trees and monkeys and elephants (the important things). I’d drink a bottle of champagne all by myself to celebrate her and making it through one of our hardest and best years ever, but….. I’m pregnant! Again! About 18 weeks now, with another little girl! We’re *so* excited and terrified, all wrapped up in a pretty bow of hormones! The holidays are going to be awesome!

Speaking of holidays, they’re here, right? I’ve been looking forward to them since July. No joke. I can’t wait for the Christmas trees and snowflakes and cold weather. I can’t wait for Vince Guaraldi (even in the grocery store) and Holiday Crackers and too many cookies. I can’t wait for wrapping paper and Christmas stockings. We’ve already gone to the Holiday Parade (the dancing snowman above is from the Asheville parade). A neighbor brought over a candy Advent Calendar for Iver, who was introduced to Santa Claus at the Festival of Trees yesterday. And it’s still November!

Nice to meet you

How do you say hello to a new neighborhood?

Play hopscotch in the park.

Smell the flowers.

Look at the sky. A lot.

Find treasures among the hellebores.

And among the growing lilies.

Go barefoot.

When I was in high school, my dad, sister and I spent a lot of time volunteering. We worked at a camp for the developmentally disabled, taking groups of teenagers and adults on summertime field trips like horseback riding and swimming. (I even got a black eye in the pool one day when another volunteer tossed a kid onto my head. Ouch!) One of the reasons I chose to go to Warren Wilson College was because of its emphasis on community service, and as a junior and senior, I worked in the college’s Service Learning Office designing and editing a national journal about why and how colleges and students should incorporate community service into their academic programs.

After a hiatus of sorts — family and work responsibilities can overwhelm at times — I find myself compelled, again, to be more involved. President Obama’s call to service was and is such a moving message to me that it’s inspiring me, again, to find more ways to contribute to my own community.

One of the best places I’ve volunteered with so far has been at the Asheville-based MANNA Food Bank. While I’m a deep believer in organizing for real, systematic change in the community, I also believe in meeting people’s needs now, particularly for basic needs such as housing and food. Consider this:

  • There are more than 35 million people who are hungry in the United States. Nearly 40 percent of these people are children, and 10 percent are elderly.
  • The numbers of people living in poverty in the 18 western counties range from nearly 10 percent to 20 percent of the population.
  • The numbers of hungry people in Western North Carolina are twice the national rate, which is one in 12. That means one in every six people living in Western North Carolinian is hungry. I know there are people in my neighborhood who use local organizations to get help. There are probably some in your neighborhood, too.

Last week, Pat and I volunteered at MANNA to sort apples and make packages of food for elementary school kids to take home over the weekends. These tiny, back-pack sized packages of canned vegetables and spaghetti and meatballs go home with children who receive free or low-cost lunches at school — nationally, 30.5 million children received these lunches every day in 2007.

While we volunteered, we learned, as has been reported locally, that even though food donations have remained steady at the food bank, demand has really spiked across the region, leaving MANNA’s food resources stretched. It’s worth noting here that Charity Navigator, an organization that serves as a consumer watchdog on charities, gives MANNA only two of four possible stars (four being the best), mainly — from what I can tell — because growth in both revenues and expenses have decreased and their working capital ratio is also very, very small.

There are many root causes for hunger — low wages, unemployment, poverty. These need long-term — and sometimes political — solutions. In the meantime, I want to help make sure my neighbors have enough food to eat and that kids have enough food to eat over the weekends, when they aren’t at school and can’t get lunch there. If you want to help, too, there are lots of volunteer opportunities directly through MANNA, or you can sign on with Hands On Asheville-Buncombe, which offers volunteer opportunities in a wide variety of areas — from working on hunger to the environment. Statewide, the North Carolina Hunger Forum is working to cut hunger in half by 2015. There’s also a Raleigh-based group, Stop Hunger Now, dedicated to stopping hunger internationally, and Feeding America can give you some places to start helping other locations.

There are hundreds of hunger-fighting organizations across the country, so if you’re thinking of donating donate money to these or any other organization, take a little time to do your homework first. Look at nonprofit researchers GuideStar or Charity Navigator and check with a consumer protection agency (like the Better Business Bureau’s Wise Giving Alliance) to make sure you’re informed about what your money will do. Ask around and see what works for you, what your neighbors or colleagues recommend. 

Either way, now is the time to help. Part of my goals for the year include volunteering at least 40 hours. I’ll let you know where and how that works out. But, I’d like to know about you, too. Did Obama’s call to service move you to action? What are you doing and/or planning to do to make your community a better place for everyone?

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